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Failing vs. Failure

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FEAR

FEAR Shoot, Move and Communicate are three important aspects of shooting in the SEAL Teams.  What would happen on our missions if we became so paralyzed by fear that we froze and stood still?  We would die.  Now the civilian world usually isn’t that drastic, but fear can still ruin opportunities, sabotage moments, and waste possibilities.  We all have fears….…

Contribution in Conflict

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Creating Healthy Conversations

“Learning Conversations” What kind of conversations are you having?  When conversations get a bit tense and sometimes heated we are faced with a decision to make. We can either choose to have a “I’m right, you’re wrong” conversation where we are trying to prove our point, or we can have “learning conversations” where we remain open to someone’s perception and…

Priorities!

As leaders, we MUST learn to prioritize the important and urgent tasks during our work day.  Otherwise, we’ll waste valuable time and energy, putting out fires that aren’t relevant to our main goals.  Too often, we allow ourselves to become distracted with the urgent, unimportant tasks – which in the SEAL Teams, distracts from the overall mission objectives and could…

Suspicion

Is your organizational culture one of suspicion?  Nothing damages relational trust and camaraderie more than the assumption of suspicion.  Instead we must strive to give our teammates and colleagues the benefit of the doubt.  Giving the benefit of the doubt FIRST says “I don’t know the reason, details or motives behind your words or actions, but I trust you anyways.” …